To Vibe or Not To Vibe

I was inspired to write this post by Dangerous Lilly's rant about abstaining from vibrators and the (lack of) effect on her sensitivity.  Lilly shares her perspective on vibe shaming and the myth of vibrator addiction as someone who has always had difficulty reaching orgasm without vibration.  If you haven't read her piece, go do that now...especially if you or your partner struggle with...
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Woodhull SFS16: Bloggers Assemble!

You know that feeling you get when something that you've anticipated for ages is about to happen?  When there's another book due from your favorite author, or a new album from an amazing band and you wonder "Can this possibly live up to what I've imagined it will be?"  That was how I felt heading into the 2016 Sexual Freedom Summit. ...
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On Friends and Benefits (and also Magical Penis Theory)

If I had a dollar for every time I heard someone say that being friends with benefits is a recipe for disaster, I'd be able to buy everything on my sex toy wish list.  And maybe a few years' worth of lube to go with it.  Sex ruins friendships, some people insist.  It complicates everything.  There's always an...
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Review: Gigabeast by Frisky Beast

When people hear how many dildos I own, they sometimes inquire why anyone would ever have so many.  Isn't one pretty much the same as another?  How many variations on a penis can there possibly be?  I dedicate my review of the Gigabeast to those folks who have yet to comprehend the magnificent diversity of fantasy...
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Review: Iroha+ Tori and Kushi

When it comes to dildos, it’s easy to find silicone in whatever firmness you desire.  Whether you’re looking for ultra-firm, super soft, or the best of both worlds with dual density, someone out there has what you crave.  For vibrators though, options are mostly at the super firm end of the spectrum, with ABS plastic or a thin layer of...
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Me and My Clit 2 – Experiments in Pleasure

So, when we left off in this tale of self-discovery, my preteen self had finally managed to get properly acquainted with her clit and achieve her orgasmic goal.  The next several years were spent building on what I had learned, primarily through extremely frequent practice. I experimented to see how quickly I could get off, or how long I could draw...
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Erotica: Office Quickie

There’s been no greater gift to office flirtation than the invention of the text message.  Portable, discreet and private, you can exchange sexy thoughts (or pictures, if you prefer) throughout the day while your co-workers remain blissfully clueless. Nice skirt…makes me want to bend you over the desk and fuck you hard. James isn’t much for subtlety when it comes to sexting, but his directness...
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