Blogiversary: Four Years of Ninjahood!

Four years.  This is a blogiversary that feels like a milestone, not because of the number, but because this was one hell of a tough year.  Shortly after the blog turned three, I made the decision to end my marriage, and spent the next six months getting legally, financially and emotionally prepared.  That effort sucked up a tremendous amount of...
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Partner Play: Dildos and Double Penetration

Note: For the purposes of this post, I'll be talking about my own experiences/fantasies involving double penetration (specifically, double vaginal).  Also, the dildo pairs in photos are put together more for artistic flair than as a recommendation. The year was 1994, and a much younger version of me was making out with a college boyfriend in his dorm room.  During a...
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Review: Jimmyjane Live Sexy Ascend 4

Thanks to my wand-loving blogger buddies (notably Wand Queen Sarah Brynn Holliday), I've been venturing more and more into the land of vibrators that provide broader, deeper stimulation.  But as much as I've come to appreciate wands, they are usually large and don't lend themselves well to travel. The Ascend 4 from Jimmyjane caught...
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Safer Sexting: A Guide to Keeping Your Pics Private

I love sexting.  I love sending sexy pictures.  I love the confidence boost that comes from an enthusiastic response, knowing my partner is turned on by what they see.  I love getting sexts in return, and telling my partner all the things I want to do with them next time we meet.  It's a fantastic way to get the rush of...
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Moving Sex Toys – Getting My Dicks In A Row

I finally got the last of the dildos out of my storage unit.  Now there's a sentence you don't read every day.  But then again, it's not every day that a sex blogger has to relocate their extensive (and heavy) collection of sex toys.  Moving is generally a time-consuming, difficult endeavor but in my case, there were some unique challenges.

Moving All...

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Anticipation and Adventure

Anticipation.  It's delicious and terrifying at the same time, poised on the brink of a new adventure with someone you've been crushing on.  Savoring the slow progression from "fun to imagine but couldn't possibly happen" to "wait, was he checking me out?" and starting to wonder if maybe something could come of it after all (yeah, pun is absolutely 100% intended). ...
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Review: Teddy Love

Back when Teddy Love was first being introduced to the world via a crowdfunding campaign, I had some strong feelings about this bear.  I'm guessing that the folks behind Teddy Love were unaware of this post when they emailed me, offering a bear of my very own to review.  I almost deleted the email without responding.  Why would I want to review...
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Review: Doxy Die Cast

The Doxy Die Cast is one of the most impressive looking sex toys on the market.  The shiny aluminum body and sleek black silicone head tell you immediately that this vibe is a badass.  It is not kidding around.  It is here to stimulate genitals and chew bubble gum, and it is all out of bubble gum.  Weighing in...
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