A Quick One About Quickies

I'm literally on my way out the door.  He really should be getting ready to leave for that meeting.  I have to get going to pick up the kids.  But neither of us cares, because we have another, far more pressing need.  I drop my purse, raise an eyebrow and move toward him.  He tells me to behave in a tone that says the...
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Blogiversary 3 and the Great Dildo Weigh-In Contest

Yes, it's that time of year again.  The weather is gray and slushy, the Valentine's Day candy has all gone on clearance sale, and I'm celebrating another year as a sex blogger.  As per usual, this blogiversary post will have retrospective look at the past 365 days, accompanied by updated photos of my ever-expanding sex toy collection.  And this year, I'm...
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Dear Teenage Me – A Letter to My Past Self

This post was inspired by a random thought from a meeting of Blog Squad Anxiety Support Group in the hotel parking lot at Woodhull.  I was feeling extremely relaxed and happy, having a great time with some amazing people, and I wished I could go back and tell my awkward, anxious teenage self that things are going to get better. Read more

My First (and Second, and Third) Mammogram

This spring, I had my first screening mammogram.  I tweeted about it, and talked to people about it, and while it may not be a "sexy" topic to blog about, I learned it's something a lot of people have questions about.  I also realized that quite a few people I know are scared or intimidated at the idea of having...
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To Vibe or Not To Vibe

I was inspired to write this post by Dangerous Lilly's rant about abstaining from vibrators and the (lack of) effect on her sensitivity.  Lilly shares her perspective on vibe shaming and the myth of vibrator addiction as someone who has always had difficulty reaching orgasm without vibration.  If you haven't read her piece, go do that now...especially if you or your partner struggle with...
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Me and My Clit 2 – Experiments in Pleasure

So, when we left off in this tale of self-discovery, my preteen self had finally managed to get properly acquainted with her clit and achieve her orgasmic goal.  The next several years were spent building on what I had learned, primarily through extremely frequent practice. I experimented to see how quickly I could get off, or how long I could draw...
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Masturbation Inspiration

As you should be aware by now, May is Masturbation Month.  As a sex blogger and toy reviewer, I'm celebrating pretty much every day...but I do like to do a post in honor of the occasion.  I couldn't manage a Free Range Sex Toy weekend this May, but I thought of another way to keep in the spirit of things.   Throughout this month, I made a...
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Photo Fun: Toys of All Kinds

If you've spent much time reading my blog, or follow me on Twitter, you might have noticed that I like taking pictures of my sex toys.  And frequently, those sex toys are accompanied by other, ordinary playthings. At first, using toys as photo props was purely a practical move.  I'm a mom.  I'm tripping over toys constantly.  They're literally EVERYWHERE.  So...
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Me and My Clit – Part One

Note: This post was inspired by Girly Juice's kickass post about her diva clit, which made me reflect on my own clit quirks.   I highly recommend that you check it out As a sex blogger and toy reviewer, I've developed a very clear understanding of what my clit wants.  Vibration should be rumbly, not buzzy.  Power should be medium strength,...
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