To Vibe or Not To Vibe

I was inspired to write this post by Dangerous Lilly's rant about abstaining from vibrators and the (lack of) effect on her sensitivity.  Lilly shares her perspective on vibe shaming and the myth of vibrator addiction as someone who has always had difficulty reaching orgasm without vibration.  If you haven't read her piece, go do that now...especially if you or your partner struggle with...
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Partner Play – Dealing with Dildophobia

While most of my posts are geared toward vagina/clitoris owners, this one is directed  more toward their penis-possessing partners. [1. Try saying THAT three times fast...] You see, I'm an advocate of using sex toys not only for solo masturbation, but with partner(s) as well. Unfortunately, I have learned that making this happen is not always easy. I've seen my...
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Review: Picobong Ako Outie Vibe

I think it's fitting that I received the Picobong Ako Outie Vibe from the awesome folks at Burlesque Toys as Easter approaches. This vibrator looks like a giant jelly bean!  Memo to the Easter Bunny: toss this in a basket with a few Tenga eggs, a rabbit vibe and some chocolate for the grown ups out there.  The Outie is available in pink, purple...
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